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“See, the problem is that God gives men a brain and a penis, and only enough blood to run one at a time.” Robin Williams


What’s the secret to giving my partner good oral sex?


There’s really no such thing as bad oral sex, as long as there are no teeth involved! Here are a few easy tips, you can improve your odds of providing a truly great blow job every time.

  • Get comfortable

  • Be enthusiastic – if you seem like you’re having fun and enjoying it too, it will make the experience a lot more pleasurable for him!

  • Communicate – encourage him to tell you if he wants it harder, softer, faster or slower – he knows exactly what he wants!

  • Use your hands to run all over his chest and legs – grab his bum, gently cup his balls! This all adds to the pleasure

  • On the underside of the penis, directly below the head, is a small ridge of skin known as the frenulum. On many men, this area is exquisitely sensitive to stimulation. Learn it. Know it. Use it.

  • Rhythm is important, once he’s fully aroused, this is where you begin fellating in earnest. Use gentle (not too gentle) suction and an up-and-down motion with your head to move him toward climax.

  • To Swallow or Not To Swallow...? It's up to you.

  • The Most Important Thing to Remember - have fun. Relax. He's going to love it. 


What’s the secret to receiving good oral sex?

Communication! Talk to your partner about what feels good, experience tells us that most girls like to be told/asked to do it in a way that pleases us most!