How do Vibrators Work? - In Short: The movement of a vibrator is created by an electrical mechanism inside it. The motors in battery-powered vibrators are small and have an off-center weight that spins around, making them shake. Larger, plug-in vibrators have bigger, more powerful motors, and some models use spinning electromagnetic coils to create movement
Do all Vibrators feel the Same? - All vibrators are not created equal, and neither are your erogenous zones. You may have to shop around to find the right vibrator for you.
Is a Vibrator the same as a Massager? - The term massager suggests nonsexual use to alleviate muscle pain and tension, while the word vibrator carries more sexual overtones. A massager may be used as a vibrator depending on the design. Although vibrators are specifically designed for sexual nature so these are better for stimulation.
How do I give myself an orgasm using a vibrator? - There really isn't any "right" way to use a vibrator or to bring yourself to orgasm. The most important thing to remember is that a vibrator is a tool to help you stimulate yourself; while it can help you reach a climax, it's not an instant orgasm machine. You control it and use it in the way that feels best to you.
To have the best experience with your vibrator, give yourself some time with it. Get relaxed and turned on before you actually switch the vibrator on. Experiment with your vibrator, try its different features, and apply it to different areas of your genitals to see what the sensations are like. Most women respond to clitoral stimulation, but you may prefer more or less intensity, or more or less direct stimulation. The labia and vulva are also sensitive.
If your vibrator is insertable, give that a try. Some women find penetration and vibration inside the vagina very pleasurable. However, most women need clitoral rather than vaginal stimulation to actually bring them to orgasm, so if vaginal penetration with your vibrator isn't getting you off, go back to using the vibrator on your clit. One technique you can use with an smooth insertable vibrator is to place the tip against your clit, then slide the shaft down between your labia, insert the vibrator and slide it into your vagina, and then bring it back up in a reverse stroke, sliding along the clit again on the way up.
How do I use my vibrator to stimulate my G-Spot? - It's not hard to stroke your G-Spot with an insertable vibrator or vibrating dildo. Everyone's anatomy is slightly different, so it may take a few tries to get it right. You may feel the G-spot as a walnut-sized protrusion on the upper wall of the vagina, and it's easier to hit it on the out stroke, especially if your toy has a ridge on top. Some vibrators and vibrator attachments are curved or angled up to reach the G-spot. When you insert these toys, then pull them forward into position, the curved tip rests against the G-spot and delivers the vibrations directly to it. This may produce some very intense sensations.
The G-spot is also know as the urethral sponge, and is also sometimes referred to as the "female prostate". When stimulated, it become engorged with fluid. Although this may produce a sensation of urinary urgency, it is very unlikely that you will actually pee (it's difficult to pee during a state of high sexual arousal). On the other hand, you may experienced female ejaculation, in which a clear, odorless fluid is expelled through the urethra during orgasm. Female ejaculation is accompanied by earth-shaking orgasms, so let it go and let it flow!
I have never had an orgasm - can a vibrator help? - If you've never experienced an orgasm, try manual stimulation first. If that doesn't work, a vibrator may help you make the breakthrough. Try getting a model with a moderately strong level of vibration, and give yourself enough time to play around with it and experiment. Get used to it, use it on different part of your genitals, and give yourself time to reach a level of sexual excitation.
Make sure that you're relaxed and in the mood when you use your vibrator. Fantasize, read some sexy stories, or look at porn if that gets you turned on. Not everyone needs a vibrator to get off, but it can make the experience even more enjoyable. After you have your first orgasmic experience with a vibrator, you'll probably find that you want to continue using it at least some of the time. Or maybe a lot of the time.
Will a vibrator help with orgasm during intercourse? Most women - 70 percent, according Shere Hite's surveys - don't achieve orgasm through intercourse alone. So if you're not coming during intercourse, it just means that you're normal, and your clit needs more play.
Using a vibrator for masturbation can help you become more comfortable with your sexuality and get you more in tune with the responses of your body and what feels good to you.
You can incorporate the vibrator into your sex play before or even during intercourse. Have your partner use it on you, or show your partner how you use it on yourself. Get yourself good and wet, or go all the way to the edge, and then start fucking. Bring out the vibrator again for a quick buzz if you need to get back up to speed. It's not cheating to use a vibe to help you get off during sex with your partner.