If you have difficulty reaching orgasm, a clitorial vibrator can help. Clitoral Vibrators can be used all over the body. They are designed to be held on the clitoris but sometimes this can be overpowering so you could use it on the side or on the clitoral hood. You need to ensure that you are adequately lubricated before you begin. Turn on the toy and rub it lightly against your clitoris. Sporadically move it away from the clitoris and rub it against other parts of her vagina. Chances are the speeding vibration will have you reaching climax quickly. The clitoral vibrator can also create some fantastic sesations when you run on the nipples or use it on your man as well. One of my favorite toys is the Micro Tingler Vibrator - Silver. You can even use this toy while you are being penetrating. The vibe creates amazing results for both him and her.